Reasonably Priced, Not Reasonably Free

“Reasonably Priced” or “An Arm and a Leg”? Let’s Talk About What That Even Means

If you’ve ever planned a wedding — or even just dipped your toes into wedding vendor research — you’ve probably come across some version of this:

Vendor website: “Affordable, reasonably priced services for your big day!”

Your brain: “Sweet.”

Actual price: $1,250+

Your uncle: “Back in my day, we paid a guy 50 bucks and he played records out of the trunk of his car.”

Cue the “that’s an arm and a leg!” commentary.

But here’s the thing: those words — affordable, reasonably priced, arm and a leg — they’re all totally subjective. They depend on context, expectations, and let’s be real… what you value.

For example, a $5 coffee can feel like robbery… unless you’re sleep-deprived and someone hands it to you at 6 a.m. in a perfectly crafted cup of joy. Then it’s a blessing. Same idea with wedding vendors.

When a DJ (hi 👋) charges $1,250–$1,750, that’s not just for playing music. That’s for years of experience, pro-grade gear, prep time, travel, setup, backups, and—maybe most importantly—making sure your wedding doesn’t feel like an awkward middle school dance. It’s not just hours. It’s expertise.

But I get it—weddings are expensive. And you’ve got a million decisions to make. So if you ever come across a price tag and think, “That’s a lot,” that’s totally fair. Just remember to ask: what’s included? what’s the value? And does this vendor actually make your life easier?

Because the last thing you want is to go with the cheapest option, only to pay for it in stress, chaos, or a DJ who shows up with a single speaker and an aux cord or one that doesn’t show up at all.

At the end of the day, “reasonably priced” should mean fair for what you’re getting. And no, your wedding shouldn’t cost you an arm and a leg… but if you want a party that’s out of this world, it might cost a little more than a guy with a boombox in his trunk.

One last thing: what’s affordable to one couple might feel like a stretch to another — and vice versa. Budgets are personal. Priorities are different. So instead of assuming a price is “too much” or “too cheap,” dig into the value. Ask questions. And choose vendors who make you feel confident, comfortable, and genuinely excited.

Because peace of mind on your wedding day? That’s priceless.